I have been trying to glean some life lessons from the meltdown of a high profile religious leader in recent days. It has caused me to contemplate two things: 1) what are some of the warning signs that something is wrong, 2) what are some means of preventing a life wreck.
Warning Signs:Gordon MacDonald has provided some insights that ought to be helpful to all of us to evaluate ourselves in light of these events. (
click here for MacDonald's article)
1. When people become leaders of large or multiple organizations and movements..., "when they become famous and their opinions are constantly sought out by the media, we ought to begin to be cautious." When we see individuals promoting themselves or their churches, it ought to become a warning sign. "Look at what I have done," or "look at what my church has done," or "look at the publicity that we have received." This can also be demonstrated with leaders who continually drop names of important people with whom they have had contact.
2. "A leader who becomes stubborn and rigid, who becomes less compassionate toward his adversaries, increasingly tyrannical in his own organization, who rouses anger and arrogance in others." MacDonald suggests that this might be generated by something dark within the person's own soul.
3. A leader who develops the feeling of entitlement. This is the feeling that certain privileges are deserved because one gives so much to the ministry and this is a cause for concern.
Preventative Measures:Steve Gallagher cites 4 causes of failure in the life of a minister from of his studies. His observations ought to cause us to seek measures to prevent these from taking place in our own lives (
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1. The devotional life has not been properly maintained. Not difficult to figure out what to do here.
2. There is an over-busy life. Ministry can be downright busy, but Gallagher points out that some of this business might be self-inflicted as we are involved in things that stroke our egos. They may be things that others ought to be doing instead of us.
3. There is a habit of going to the world for comfort. Ministry can be very draining, but the temptation to sit down in front of the television set, or internet can be detrimental. Regular physical exercise is an important part of prevention as well as developing other wholesome means of diversion.
4. Satan often takes advantage of discouragement to lead a person to sin. Being worn out by ministry can weaken a pastor's determination to live a holy life. "The ministry is both stressful and sedentary by nature" which is a dangerous combination. I doubt that we can prevent discouragement in our lives, but we can be aware of the enemies strategies of attack during these vulnerable times. Perhaps those are the times to share with a trusted colleague and/or spouse that discouragement has arrived once more. We need to be more open with one another on this one.
We need God's power to
"deny ungodliness and worldly desires and to live sensibly, righteously and godly in the present age" (Tit 2:12) so as not to bring reproach upon the name of Christ, His Church, our families, and our lives. May God help us all!